I have seen today, in a counseling session, a very interesting aspect of a queen, who considers that everything belongs to her, that everyone else has to obey, and if she meets resistance, she wants to punish the disobedient ones. The message is that she didn't need incorrect people!
I asked her what makes her happy and she told me that she wants to punish the few insurgents, among whom there were known people to the owner of the aspect in this life.
So I gave her the opportunity to punish them ... she chose to personally throw them, one by one, at the gate of the fortress and when she finished with the last one...she calmed down. Then she happily left in the portal prepared ... she had finished her job!... and so did we... because the frustration she had initially felt towards the incorrect people, the one that had come to me, disappeared... she was no longer interested in anyone's correctness... she had learned her lesson!
Let's listen to the voices within us that show their dissatisfaction, because they only want us, their creators, to notice and love them. By not doing this, by repressing them, they become unhappy and aggressive and what do you think we feel?...exactly the same thing, plus the fear we fill not understanding what is happening to us. If we pay a little attention, we can realize what is inside us... what energies want to get our attention.
"And in the end what is the idea? Shouldn't we do what the character above is doing (meaning the punishment of the insurgents) or should we? Or should we just sit and LISTEN AND LOVE THE VOICES WITHIN US THAT SHOW THEIR DISSATISFACTION?" someone asked me.
Let's first understand what these aspects (characters) are. They were created by us, to assist us, so ABSOLUTELY ALL of them have gifts for us, because otherwise we would not have created them. We run away from them precisely because we do not see their gifts. For example, the basic energy of control, was created to help us survive, it releases itself when you position yourself as its creator. The gift of control is assuming the role of creator. If you detachedly observe your control and you don't identify with it, but you let it manifest, it is happy that it is doing its job and you will feel the same. When you repress it, because you keep being told that it's not nice to "count the cabbage rolls in the pot", it gets frustrated and you will feel it. In its frustration, it attracts other energies that he has been feeding for some time (anger, fear, lack of trust, aggression, etc.). The control only wanted to make sure "that the cabbage rolls reach all the diners". If, however, you notice the desire for control and you don't enter into it, you just take it into account, but you stay in the energy of love, you will notice that you manage to optimally share the "dishes" to everyone. You can serve children less or find out that there are also vegetarians. The way you manage to allow the energies in you to manifest, without identifying with them, is called Authenticity. In order to be authentic, it is necessary to assume who we are (the voices within us) and to accept our gifts. First let's get to know them and then assume them. Our "Queen" had gifts for her creator: firmness, clarity, overview, impetuosity, etc. which she could not accept until after she freed her. In conclusion, the natural order is: to truly know our gifts, to assume them (without fear of consequences) and to express them authentically (with love, as they are). When you express them with love, the "insurgents" disappear, because you no longer attract them!
