For me it was something that I didn't understand for a long time how it works. I wondered for many years why my gift was refused in certain situations. During my evolution I realized that not my gift was being refused, but the consciousness I was offering from. Because behind the desire to help, was the aspect that wanted to be recognized for its help or to show that it can, that it has something and that it is valuable. Then, I was actually offering a conditional help. I was also frustrated if I did’nt receive the gratitude of those I assisted and if I did not receive in return, the same kind of help that I offered.
With self-love, came along the value and recognition, and I no longer projected them externally through the need to receive them from those I somehow assisted.
In fact, I no longer perceive that I am providing any assistance, material or energetic, only that I am the right person at the right time. I realize that I am only a channel through which assistance is achieved. I just feel like being that instrument through which it is passed on.
Unconditioning is the natural state of man, who puts himself into service without mentally analyzing the benefits.
Man's only merit is that he allows himself to become, consciously or not, such an instrument.
The moment you are consciously connected, to these higher aspects of yourself, to the flow of life, to your Self, your attention is focused only on being and only then does that authentic flow of energy, of information takes place. .. unconditional, for it happens on a higher plane where your personality is silent. Even if 5 minutes before that man's personality was creating animosity for you, the moment you opened your heart chakra and connected to that higher level of consciousness within you, you also connect to the same level of consciousness in the other and the assistance happens through you, naturally, without you even noticing it. You can observe, however, the energy flow and the intention of assistance of the source within you. At that moment you KNOW that there is no "other" and that it’s about only you, it has been all along!
When you realize that by giving on, you are actually giving to yourself, to the aspects of yourself which are seen as lacking, a genuine leap in consciousness occurs!
2. For me, passing on is a responsibility that I feel to assume. For the gifts I have received in recent years that have changed both the quality and the course of my life, I feel gratitude, and from this gratitude I feel like sharing. Although sometimes I only pass on the information that has settled within me, for me the most valuable guidance I can give is when I manage to get out of my mind and just let myself be and let the Self express itself. It's a challenge, but the moment I feel like that is no longer my physical aspect in command, something wonderful happens. I am aware that in those moments, the Self expresses itself and I have complete trust in everything that comes through my phisycal aspect. Passing on is a joy and the most important aspect is the lack of expectations. All my life I intuitively felt that I should not expect a reward from the one I helped, I helped unconditionally because I felt that way and I knew that when I needed help in turn, it would come somehow, through someone, through something, and that's how it's always been. And furthermore, by setting this higher purpose behind some personal goals, the materialization was almost instantaneous.
3. I have been thinking about what it means for me to give and how to translate the image I see with my mind's eye, namely a sign of infinity on which a bright point keeps walking, until it reaches the center of this sign ...
When I give conditionally, even if I do it with good intentions, but I give from a lower consciousness (from a savior aspect, from an underappreciation aspect (to seek recognition and appreciation outside of myself) or from a aspect that gives to be able to puff up), most likely the gift (the message, the information, the material thing in question) will be received, but distorted.
Instead, when I give unconditionally, giving is equal to receiving, that is, through me I am giving to another aspect of myself that I see outside of myself, but we are both the same Source manifested differently. That is, there is no beginning of giving and no end of receiving, giving and receiving being only different meanings of the same action, which constitutes a continuous flow.
Ultimately, giving comes naturally through maintaining a higher consciousness and and it does not necessarily consist in the transmission of information or a material thing, but simply about maintaining a higher perspective and sharing what I am as a Being. Thus, that perspective propagates on a level throughout all Creation.
4. For me, to give (to pass on) means to share/transmit to others from what I "receive" in turn from SELF - UNIVERSE - I AM consciousness, by whatever means it chooses to communicate.
To share from the information/messages which are transmitted to me through the books I read or have read.
To give (pass on) all that I receive from SELF - UNIVERSE - I AM consciousness, through whatever or whoever it chooses to express.
To share from the experiences I lived, they can assist others in their experiences.
To share what I receive or have received through the spirituality courses I attend or have attended. What works for me and helps me can help others.
Passing on means being a channel through which SELF manifests/expresses itself.
5. To me, giving (passing on) reflects gratitude for the gift received, meant to be passed on. It is part of the beautiful game of giving and receiving, it is the natural gesture by which I give from my overflow, but also the gesture of gratitude for the light that I recognized in you, and in you, and in you, and which then it has been reflected tenfold in me and asks to be shared.
For me, giving (passing on) is the feeling of opening my heart to the light that I have discovered in myself, in my heart, and the awareness that it has been and is there forever, it has never left me, and this truth can only be shared and passed on.
For me, giving (passing on) is a continuous process of learning and realizing that what I do out of love I do for myself and what I do and don't do out of love I do for myself, and life has always brought me in front of this truth until I learned it so well.
6. To give (to pass on) for me means doing the best I can in any action of mine. To be present as much as I can towards 100%. To be careful from which space I speak, which parts of me speak. Passing on also means sharing with others what I do, whether it's something physical, a food or a painting, or a new positioning/point of view/perspective.
7. I give my best when I Am.
When, being on a high frequency, I can transmit what I received until that moment, to which I put my own "shade" of consciousness and energy.
8. For me, giving (passing on) is a way of elevating the soul. When I give from the space of unconditional love I can truly feel the joy of giving. Giving means connecting to the frequency of love and confirming that I Am only a channel through which the Self manifests. I am and that's it. Nothing simpler and more profound.
9. Most of the time I feel like passing on something that made me happy or excited - either because it answered some questions or because it helped me see things from a different angle.
And always the first thought is - maybe others need to understand what I understood and it will help them solve some problems/stories.
And many times, those to whom I pass that information, regardless of the form (books, various audio/video materials) or source, do not have the expected reaction.
Because it took me a long time to finally realize that this desire to give forward - to be helpful, to solve other people's problems, comes from a consciousness of "savior". And no matter how noble intentions it may have, it is still an egoic consciousness.
Because this consciousness makes me to have an implicit expectation, at a very deep level, to be recognized and valued by those to whom I pass on.
I learned that everything that comes with expectations, has behind control and conditioning, which are some of the Ego's favorite tools to manipulate us.
And what would be the solution, you will ask?
I don't know if it's true for others, but for me it's like this: when I speak without thinking too much, without intention, without expectations, that is, I find myself speaking, spontaneously, about certain topics that concern me, then my message touches the interlocutors. Then I am authentic and transmit information from another, higher level of consciousness. That is, I am not only the human, I am a consciousness, a channel, through which my higher parts transmit a message to the higher parts of others.
Now I'm learning to decondition myself, to allow myself, or rather to allow my Self to transmit through me what other people need to receive.
10. The gift of giving is not just for the recipient. Unconditional giving without any attachment or expectation makes that the one that gives to access into a plane of higher consciousness. Giving with attachments and expectations creates imbalances for both the receiver and the giver.
