{"id":5119,"date":"2023-04-18T19:03:42","date_gmt":"2023-04-18T17:03:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/?p=5119"},"modified":"2023-04-18T19:06:21","modified_gmt":"2023-04-18T17:06:21","slug":"increderea-in-mine-sau-increderea-in-sine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/increderea-in-mine-sau-increderea-in-sine\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cencrederea \u00een mine sau \u00eencrederea \u00een Sine?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recunosc c\u0103 de multe ori m\u0103 ia valul 3D-ului dar \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 perioada \u00een care \u00eemi \u201ccapteaz\u0103\u201d total aten\u021bia este din ce \u00een ce mai scurt\u0103. Dac\u0103 \u00eenainte st\u0103team mult timp pentru c\u0103,\u2026 aveam multa treab\u0103, acum de\u0219i 3D-ul \u00ee\u0219i cere partea lui, fac totul mult mai con\u0219tient.<\/p>\n<p>Dar mai este un joc la care Sinele m\u0103 tot invit\u0103 s\u0103 mai parcurg o rund\u0103. Este vorba de c\u00e2t\u0103 \u00eencredere am \u00een mine \u0219i c\u00e2t\u0103 \u00een el. \u0218i \u0219tie exact c\u00e2nd s\u0103 \u00eemi aduc\u0103 aceste probe. Atunci c\u00e2nd omule\u021bul se afl\u0103 \u00een starea lui de confort \u0219i toate merg bine \u0219i e u\u0219or s\u0103 zici c\u0103 ai \u00eencredere \u00een p\u0103r\u021bile tale mai \u00eenalte, c\u0103 deh, doar uite ce bine pare c\u0103 merg toate, atunci scoate artileria! \u00cemi aduce c\u00e2te o situa\u021bie care ini\u021bial destabilizeaz\u0103 omule\u021bul din starea lui de echilibru, \u00eel scutur\u0103 pu\u021bin \u0219i g\u00e2ndurile de \u201cao\u0103leu\u201d dau din coate s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i fac\u0103 loc \u00een minte. Cum o s\u0103 fac asta? Cum rezolv asta? \u0218i\u2026ce s\u0103 vezi\u2026trebuie s\u0103 o rezolv \u0219i repede\u2026.deci stres adi\u021bional. \u0218i ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 atunci? Scade vibra\u021bia, intru \u00een fric\u0103, dac\u0103 nu pot rezolva, pare imposibil, cum s\u0103 fac?<\/p>\n<p>Simt cum nivelul stresului cre\u0219te \u0219i m\u0103 simt pierdut\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 solu\u021bii. \u0218i la un moment, parc\u0103 e un clopo\u021bel \u00een spatele capului care sun\u0103 alarma. Cine din mine se simte cople\u0219it de toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie? O parte care se vede victim\u0103 a circumstan\u021bei \u0219i brusc \u00eemi aduc aminte c\u0103 nu sunt eu acea parte. Deci prima dat\u0103 \u00eemi apare g\u00e2ndul. Apoi dup\u0103 ce am con\u0219tientizat c\u0103 nu sunt eu victima aceea pe care o percep, simt s\u0103 ies din ea \u0219i deschid inima, \u00eemi creez un spa\u021biu \u00een care s\u0103 o pot vedea deta\u0219at.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i \u00een continuare \u00eemi aduc aminte c\u0103 am \u0219i un as \u00een m\u00e2nec\u0103, dac\u0103 tot ne juc\u0103m. \u00cemi aduc aminte s\u0103 las \u00een grija Sinelui situa\u021bia \u00een cauz\u0103, dar cu \u00eencredere total\u0103 c\u0103 se va rezolva. Aici mai e de lucrat de obicei, pentru c\u0103 de\u0219i la un nivel \u0219tiu c\u0103 Sinele se ocup\u0103 \u0219i mi-a dovedit de nenum\u0103rate ori prin rezolv\u0103ri, unele miraculoase de-a dreptul, acea ne\u00eencredere st\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 pragul u\u0219ii \u0219i bag\u0103 capul din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, s\u0103 nu uit de ea c\u0103 e \u201cacolo\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i uite a\u0219a simt c\u0103 sunt \u00eentr-un carusel, c\u00e2nd sus, c\u00e2nd jos, uneori \u00eemi este greu s\u0103 m\u0103 men\u021bin \u00een spa\u021biul \u00eencrederii totale \u0219i cred c\u0103 asta depinde de c\u00e2t de implicat\u0103 sunt \u00een situa\u021bie sau de gradul de gravitate \u00een care o \u00eencadreaz\u0103 omule\u021bul, pe scurt, c\u00e2t m\u0103 identific cu partea care se vede cople\u0219it\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Pendulez \u00eentre a avea \u00eencredere \u00een mine c\u0103 rezolv eu cumva, apoi apare iar g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 nu am nici cea mai vag\u0103 idee cum s\u0103 o rezolv, apoi iar dau Sinelui s\u0103 se ocupe. Dar \u00eentotdeauna ideea salvatoare vine de la Sine, omule\u021bul \u00ee\u0219i face treaba pe care o are de f\u0103cut la nivel 3D, dar rezolvarea vine mereu sub o form\u0103 de necontestat c\u0103ci dincolo de ceea ce credem c\u0103 suntem, este Fiin\u021ba de care ar fi bine s\u0103 fim con\u0219tien\u021bi \u00een fiecare clip\u0103 a vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n<p>Acum, la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul fiec\u0103rei runde, c\u00e2nd \u00eemi primesc \u201cbonusul\u201d, omule\u021bul meu se simte cople\u0219it de recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 pentru a\u0219ezarea situa\u021biei, pu\u021bin ru\u0219inat c\u0103 iar a picat la capitolul \u201c\u00eencredere total\u0103, de necontestat\u201d \u0219i cu promisiunea c\u0103 \u201cdata viitoare\u201d nu va mai l\u0103sa s\u0103 se strecoare nicio \u00eendoial\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i c\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenchei a\u0219a cu o analogie, o imagine care mi-a venit \u00een minte, m\u0103 simt c\u0103 \u00eentr-o ma\u0219inu\u021b\u0103 din aceea cu 2 locuri \u00een care stau omule\u021bul meu \u0219i al\u0103turi Sinele. Ma\u0219ina are un singur volan. O singur\u0103 persoan\u0103 poate conduce ma\u0219inu\u021ba la un moment dat. Acum, pe cine las la volan? Alegerea \u00eemi apar\u021bine!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recunosc c\u0103 de multe ori m\u0103 ia valul 3D-ului dar \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 perioada \u00een care \u00eemi \u201ccapteaz\u0103\u201d total aten\u021bia este din ce \u00een ce mai scurt\u0103. Dac\u0103 \u00eenainte st\u0103team mult timp pentru c\u0103,\u2026 aveam multa treab\u0103, acum de\u0219i 3D-ul \u00ee\u0219i cere partea lui, fac totul mult mai con\u0219tient. Dar mai este un joc [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","_wp_convertkit_post_meta":{"form":"-1","landing_page":"0","tag":"0","restrict_content":"0"},"_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5119"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5119"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5119\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5120,"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5119\/revisions\/5120"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5119"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5119"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akenakumara.com\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5119"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}